On Friday, we got the electric back but still had no hot water or heat. Thankfully, I must be in pretty good shape as I went up/down the 6 flights of stairs with cat food, groceries, a space heater and other necessities about 6 times on Saturday. On Sunday, the elevators were back and Monday saw the restoration of heat and hot water. It was great to take a hot shower! Finally, internet and cable service returned yesterday. We are officially back to normal.
In business school, we learned a theory called Maslow’s hierarchy of needs. The hierarchy is a pyramid that starts with basic necessities such as food, water and shelter and ends with self-actualization, which is autonomy and achievement as the highest level. During the past week, I moved to the bottom of the pyramid as did most of my friends, colleagues and family that lived in the tri-state area.
I went to work after the office was closed for 2 days (and was happy to be there since work had all the “luxuries” we didn’t have at home). It was still hard to concentrate. I was thinking of things I need to get in order to survive and make the home situation as comfortable as possible. I had to walk to work since mass transit was not running. We quickly ran out of food, water and batteries as the week wore on. I was able to get “amenities” at stores near my office - but then had to walk back home with gallon bottles of water and other heavy things and to haul it all up 6 flights of stairs with a flashlight! The so-called emergency lights in our stairwells were out all week! Batteries were a scarce commodity and even now, I don’t think that there are any D batteries on the island of Manhattan! On Thursday, I went to at least 6 drugstores looking for votive candles and finally found them at a 99 cent store near my office.
There are still many people who had a much worse time than we did – those that lost their homes, livelihoods, friends and relatives. Even in our community, some apartments still have no power or heat and I feel quite sorry for what they are going through.
During the past week, I did not really think about my cancer, treatment choices or anything related to my health – just tried to get through the day and take care of the basics. I rescheduled my small bowel x-ray series but have not spent any time looking things up, reading the posts on the ACOR list or dwelling on my situation. It’s been quite refreshing to forget about all this cancer stuff for a week.
Now that I am moving up on the hierarchy of needs again, I have my monthly Sandostatin shot as well as the small bowel x-ray series scheduled for next week. I am meeting with my primary care physician after Thanksgiving to discuss my situation and choices as it relates to my cancer treatment – hopefully he will give me some perspective on the choices I face.
This morning the temperature plunged to 38 degrees. We are expecting a big Nor’easter today – I hope the power system and infrastructure here in NYC can deal with another storm. A lot of us are holding our breath!
